Would you like fries with it?

Doing what your customers say they need you to do without a proper diagnosis from your side is asking that question. It’s leaning into taking orders and leave all the responsibility (and risk) on them. So when things go south “they got what they asked for”. And to get those things done (what they say they need), you’ll compete with LLMs and AI, amongst other who “do” the same. Start with a diagnosis. That’s one of the first indicators you’re the expert.

Don’t speak

“Don’t speak, I know just what you’re sayin’So please stop explainin'”Don’t Speak – No Doubt When you’re in a sales conversation, stop talking. Start listening. Probe with questions. It’s not about your reasons. About your product. About you. It’s about vetting if there’s a fit (a set of, actually) between your prospect and your business. If you can help them. And if they want the kind of help you give. More explaining won’t do it. More listening will.

Keeping things safe

Nobody move. Things are just working. Play it safe. While keeping it safe might feel right the way to go, it is also a call to deflect from innovating and taking new risks. On how things that worked for a (long) time are still delivering some results… but not taking head on what could be next. Falling into best practices, rather than practicing. And getting too comfortable with how you’re running things —that will terrify you to risk any of it. Here’s the thing Better to get disruption from…

Not all of your clients

Not all of them will follow your advice. And that’s ok. It’s their prerogative. And as such, it’s not your responsibility either. You can only help the ones who let you help. And to find these ones, you need qualifying. Choose wisely.

The (high) price problem

Often times, you can think that because people are not buying at the volumes you expect it’s because of your high price. Logic would say that if you lower your prices, that would increase the sales. I mean, a school of Economics backs this up (price-sensitivity / price elasticity). But it might just be something else. 1. We’re humans. So logic is not our forte. (: 2. It might have with who you want your customers to be. And that Price Problem, might just be a Decision Problem. On not making…

Angst

In German, that’s the translation for Fear. Fear of sharing… … your secret sauce. The way you do things. The way you can lead the sale. The way you lead your engagements. The way you’re different. The things you know. All of them in fear of your competition figuring out “what you do and what you know” and doing it to take you out of the market. That’s just too egotistic. While they care, they don’t really care about you. You sharing all of your knowledge is an advantage for you because it…

Just a fling

“It’s just a fling” A fling is something sporadic, occasional and with no prospect of something in the future. A fling, though, wouldn’t be called a transaction. Just a thing of the moment. Easily exchanged. Easily forgettable. Your business? Is it a fling for your customers? Or are they actually invested in making it a thing? Because depending on what it is that they see, you could start talking on loyalty.

Whose advice to follow when pricing?

Your cost specialist can’t do your pricing. They’re focused on costs. Price is focused on value (on how to capture the most of it). Costs look into the business. Pricing looks into the customer. Into what’s important and acceptable for them. From their perspective, with their money, with their needs. Not with what you think it’d be “fair” to you. Which focus are you taking? 🙂

Getting new business isn’t “Wins”

Why not Wins? Because it’s pointless. Even if you keep track of them all, of all of your “wins”, it won’t serve you more than as just an ego exercise. Or to build confidence, if you want. Nothing else. The more you score, the better the win is. Right? Then, what if you have 1M in rev? And 999999 in costs… What if you have 10M in profit? And bad sleep bc of the stress. It’s not like sports (or a war), where you win by defeating the other(s) —and by scoring the most. Keep track, yes. Keep…

Customer is king

If customer is king, you can’t say no. Your head will roll. If customer is king, you can’t contradict them —even when their ideas are BAD. If customer is king, you’re not allowed to walk away until dismissed. If customer is king, you do what you’re told. If customer is king, you’re not at their level. If customer is king, they’re the prize to be won. If … And that’s not reality. There are no kings.