You can’t decide for your customer
“[You] have been taught that somehow the value of what you produce has to do with the time it took you to do something –it never has, and it never will.” Time’s Up | Paul Dunn & Ron Baker. The time, or the effort, or your costs. They are not why your customers should (and would) pay for what you offer. It’s about what they get. And what they get, at the end of it all, is the perception of what they get. You can’t decide for them what’s valuable. You can’t “educate” them on what’s valuable….
Whose advice to follow when pricing?
Your cost specialist can’t do your pricing. They’re focused on costs. Price is focused on value (on how to capture the most of it). Costs look into the business. Pricing looks into the customer. Into what’s important and acceptable for them. From their perspective, with their money, with their needs. Not with what you think it’d be “fair” to you. Which focus are you taking? 🙂
Sometimes it’s just that simple…
When things go wrong, it has (usually) nothing to do with trust. It has nothing to do with a conscious sabotage. Sometimes, it’s just happened. With time, you’ll get to see things that go South very quickly and when you notice, it’s already done. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Or in Robert Hanlon’s words… “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by incompetence.” Maybe it’s that stupid simple. 🤷
Stop with Why.
Don’t ask why. Don’t ask the reasoning behind. Don’t ask to justify. You won’t get a real answer. All you’ll get is a personal defense of a position, with a heavy load of feelings. It’ll feel like an attack to the other one. Even when you have the best intentions. Start with “What” or “How” “What made you get to this decision / process / move…” “How did you come up to…” These 2 words take off the load of judgement over the question, and detach the person from the behavior. And with that,…
Just like sex.
I mean, there’s no competition for who makes it faster, right? Which brings the question: What if slow is better? What if don’t need to improve the efficiency BUT the efficacy? What if it’s not about how fast / efficient / productive you get to a result, but about what kind of result you’re looking for? As Rory Sutherland in this video says: “What if it’s not about the speed of the commute, but about the commute itself?” What if we’re making the wrong questions? And it’s not about speed (or…
Having a sense
Just because you’re measuring something, doesn’t mean it’s the right one to keep track of. You’re supposed to measure EVERYTHING that really matters to have a sense of where things are going. But that’s that: a sense. So that you can correct course. Everything can be measured. How you judge where that measure is directing you is what makes the difference.
Seeing things and hallucinating
They’re 2 different things. Although they might look similar. Seeing things is about how you can have a vision and kind of grasp it. How you can see the application of one thing in a different context. Hallucinating is believing you’re seeing one thing, when the reality is not that one. It’s not about a vision, but about a reality. Hallucinating “We give amaaaaazing, premium service to our customers”. Customers call. They get on hold to talk to a bot. Get ignored. Make them feel like idiots….
Your job
“Don’t pitch your value in the sale. That’s marketing’s job. Your job is to uncover the value the client is seeking. Arm yourself with questions, not claims.” Blair Enns That’s it for today. Make questions. The right ones. 🙂
Double Thank You
That’s when your client gives you their money and say “Thank you. The work we’ve done together has really moved the needle.” And that’s when you say “Thank you. For letting me guide and lead to make this change.” It’s double because both gained something. And it’s about what’s important for them (aka the value). Jonathan Stark has his own take on this, and Blair Enns, too here. What was the last double thank you you can recall? 🙂
Seeing things
“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while. That’s because they were able to connect experiences they’ve had and synthesize new things” That was Steve Jobs in an interview. And that’s right, it’s “just” seeing things and connecting them. Creativity comes in a way that it sees something, it makes the connection and brings…