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What’s your level of self-awareness? As in when you’re in a conversation and are able to listen and view yourself and what’s happening as if you were an spectator? When you’re able to do so (and I know I’m not one to do fully, or even at a 30%), you can guide the conversation at a higher level. You can see how you’re about to react. Or how you did react, and correct on the spot. And if you can’t correct right there, right then, you can take a note of what happened and do better next time. The opposite of this, is just someone talking and reacting to impulses. Waiting for the other to shut up so that you can talk. Where are you on this spectrum? 🙂 |