Selling. The dirty word. Makes you cringe.

A natural reaction.

When it’s understood as we’ve been taught: convincing, finding ways to sneak in things that will be (mostly) in your favor, doing whatever it takes even when it feels wrong.

You can try a different conception of Selling:

“Helping people you like get what they want” Jonathan Stark.

Because selling can be seen as not trying to convince anyone of anything.

It’s vetting them to see if they’re a fit for you.

Vetting them if it makes sense

Vetting yourself into seeing how you could help.

Helping them by being open and straightforward: if you can help them, give them the option to do so. I you can’t, directing them towards someone who could (including your competition).

Under this frame, selling will be about more conversations, and saying “No” will come easier.

A different “natural”.-

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