Magical thinking
First, willful ignorance. It’s the avoidance of the facts and what’s the situation. It’s choosing to ignore all the red flags and moving away from making a decision. Why? Because it might feel uncomfortable. Or hard to make. Or the consequences are not the desired ones. Choosing not to see and know will not make the problem go away. It’ll make the next phase of the situation inevitable. Choosing not to know so that it doesn’t exist is magical thinking. It’s wanting to have a sense of control…
